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Dear Ms Anonymous,

It's so wonderful to see you.  I've been wondering when you were going to stop by and hang out with me.  Come on in, stay a while.

This is a space where you will be filled up with motivation and inspiration as you walk out of the shadows and step confidently into the spotlight of your new identity.

So excited to be on this journey with you!

With love,

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When I first started studying human design… I didn’t know what would happen. 

It wasn’t all that long ago actually… But it’s shifted me in so many ways in that time. 

I thought it would just be a tool to help me learn more about myself.

Honestly, I avoided it for a while, before I literally collided into it and couldn’t look away. 

It shows me my gifts and my shadows. 

This week I’m really trying to understand my strategy and my authority. 

As a manifesting generator I’m constantly working to make things happen. For myself and for others. Forcing them to happen in some cases. Then wonder why I’m frustrated. 

Because my strategy says to “respond!”… specifically “wait to respond, then inform before acting!” 

I had to dig in to learn what that really means because I didn’t get it. I had never actually done that strategy before lol so of course I didn’t get it.

Manifesting generators need do respond to events and occurrences in their reality. I have to look for threads within my reality that create optimal energetic exchange when responding. Then I have to inform someone that I’m doing a thing, then act on it. 

This happened recently. I have been following a coach on social for a long time. And I’ve listened to her podcast. Seen her offers, but not acted on it. But then she started talking about human design, and I kept feeling a stirring. I started becoming even more interested. When she made an offer for me to join to learn more about human design, I knew I couldn’t pass it up. 

I’m super excited that human design has made its way into my orbit. 

I can see how it’s helping me…. And how I’m going to use it to help so many others. 

In fact, that ripple effect has already started. 

I am purposefully created. ❤️
I need to do a super hard thing! Flood me with your stories of pet adoptions to remind me that there are wonderful humans out there! 

If you’re in the Raleigh/NC area and have been thinking about adopting a kitty… let me know! ❤️ 

(Don’t need the judgment or the questions… the decision is already hard enough and I’ve been avoiding it for a long time.) 

My heart needs some reassuring that they will be ok… that they will be happy in families more than they would be outside. 

If you know someone looking for a kitty, share me with them please. ❤️
I’ve been super busy over the past few months! Today I was chatting with my coach Cathy and I asked her if we could do a review of the last 11 weeks. 

🤯 And I blew my own damn mind. 🤯

Because as much as I tell myself I’m not doing enough… The truth is that’s a whole lie. 

Here’s the run down of what I’ve been up to! Share with me what you’ve been up to so we can celebrate ourselves!

🤩 I wrote, marketed and sold a book! 
🤩 I created 5 fun classes to go along with the content of the book. 
🤩 I started a collab workshop teaching human design to female entrepreneurs.
🤩 I started going to therapy to deal with some emotions and grief.
🤩 I was on a podcast and featured in a magazine.

There’s so much more! But I’ll start with those 5 milestones that have happened over the past 11 weeks! 

So, maybe I need to create a success journal and record what happens over the next 11 weeks.

And actually start defining success in terms like this. Because the impact of these wins is beyond monetary. 

Share your wins in the comments so I can celebrate with you! Big or small, let’s celebrate them all! 🥳
There’s nothing like the pure energy that comes for me when I’m teaching a class! It feels so amazing to help a bunch of women who are on the journey of self-discovery through human design! 

Can’t wait to stare more! But for now, I’ve used up all my energy for today… and I’m definitely living in my design!
Oh hey!! Good morning!! 

I’m trying to shake up and wake up my algorithm! Hit me back in the comments with a funny gif or a selfie! Or just say hey girl hey if you see this!! 😘😘
It’s the 3rd day of May and it feels like the 33rd day. 

I feel like I’ve been going, going, going like the energizer 🐇🐇 since after my surgery recovery.

The truth is… my body feels AMAZING. I can push it in ways I haven’t been able to in a long time. 

But with that push came a little bit of exhaustion.

Ok, a lot. 

Mentally I feel exhausted too. 

I’ve been in creation mode. And that feels AMAZING. Designing and bringing to life what I really want to put out in the world. 

So, this month I’m going to plan to build in more rest… as I build my business… and continue to build my strength back up. 

Remember y’all… the journey is long. Or so we hope. But it’s not worth it if you run yourself into the ground before it’s your time. 

Build in that rest and rejuvenation time. 

God’s got everything else covered.
Breakthroughs always come at the most inconvenient times for me! 

You probably would have laughed at me today at every red light trying to write down a piece of the breakthrough as it came through.

Literally… Stop 🛑 … Write ✍️… Go 🏃🏽‍♀️

Usually it happens in the shower when I don’t have a pen. Today I was able to capture it, not just let it slip. 

I feel like that’s the flow of God in my life.

He makes me stop for a while. Pause. Rest. Take a break. Especially when I want to run at a million miles an hour, chasing 100 rabbits. 

Then He gives me a word. Either an actual word to focus on… or a piece of inspiration, a message. And I have to write it down on tablets, just like Habakkuk.

Only after that can I start to move in a particular direction. The light onto my feet leads the way.

So if you’re in need of a breakthrough today, remember this: Stop 🛑 Write ✍️ Go 🏃🏽‍♀️

Your breakthrough is in the flow. 

Drop a ❤️ and shared this with someone who needs this message today!
Wooooooh what a rush??!!!

Building a personal brand is quite the journey!!

There are going to be moments of high highs and low lows! 

Times where you think you’re screwing it all up… and then there’s extreme clarity and you see it all working together. 

Your breakthroughs come in the action of:

doing ➡️ growing ➡️ building 

Your brand will take YEARS to take shape! 

It starts with putting yourself out there in ways you never thought possible! 

It starts with taking the big leap into the place where your heart knows you want to lead and serve. 

Your brand becomes an actual real thing in the world through sharing the journey. 

So, don’t be afraid to share the beginning, middle, or awkward stages of the journey. They are just as valuable as the wins. You’re showing others possibility. That it CAN happen for them too. 

You never know where someone will meet you along the journey… Where their path crosses yours… And the reason why! 

Sometimes it’s part of the lesson… And other times it’s part of the magic! 

Which role am I playing for you? 

I’d love to know! 

Am I part of your lesson or am I part of your magic??
I still remember the day my coach Cathy asked me “What do you want to be known for?” 

It was a question that put me deep in thought.

Honestly I couldn’t answer her right away. 

There’s just so much that I do that I really love and enjoy! And the woman that I am today is such an evolved version of me. 

But then it hit me while I was standing in the place where all of my best ideas come… the shower…

☀️ I want to be known for helping women elevate the way they show up in the world! ☀️

Their clothing, their look, their energy, their self-perception, their identity, their presence! 

When a woman who works with me walks out the door she knows who she is and she shows up in that elevated self! 

She’s not the girl anymore that wears those baggy gray sweats that hides her colorful personality.

She’s not the girl that doesn’t speak up for herself at work and gets passed up for promotion.

She no longer use the words “I’m just a” as a way to describe herself! 

She shows up in her light, her message, and her power. That’s the girl that comes out of the other side of working with me! 

Yeah she may be shy and insecure about parts of herself right now, but damn in just a few short months, look out because she’s going to have that IT factor she’s been looking for. 

How do I know I can help someone do that? 

Because I am my own best testimonial. If you knew me four years ago, you saw a shell of a person who had her confidence rocked by trauma and turmoil. And even with the battles I face daily, I’ve got my warrior swords at hand. ⚔️⚔️ 

I never give up. 

Ready to elevate the woman you are, the message you speak, the story you tell, and how you show up in the world? 

Then girl, it’s about time! 

Swords up ladies! We’re building warriors over here! ⚔️⚔️

Who’s with me? Let’s go!

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